There is not a simple property that will allow this. However you can use a sneaky method for doing this, though it has risks of internals breaking it in the future so definitely make sure you build in error handling.
using (TaskService mgr = new TaskService())
{
var dlg = new TaskEditDialog(mgr.RootFolder.Tasks[0], false, false);
try
{
TabControl tabs = dlg.Controls["taskPropertiesControl1"].Controls["tabControl"] as TabControl;
TabPage triggerTab = dlg.Controls["taskPropertiesControl1"].Controls["tabControl"].Controls["triggersTab"] as TabPage;
if (tabs != null && triggerTab != null)
tabs.SelectedTab = triggerTab;
}
catch { }
dlg.ShowDialog(this);
}